tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771237976543153232024-03-15T01:23:33.583+10:00Knights In The CastleAmityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.comBlogger110125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-8107865824757667292019-05-30T21:22:00.001+10:002019-05-30T21:22:30.622+10:00Parkrun milestones<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It has been a long time coming getting this top. This amazing little boy wakes me up every Saturday so we head off to Parkrun at Central Lakes. Kevin and I normally walk but even so 5km 50 times is a big deal even for an adult. To say I'm proud is an understatement. </div>
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Parkrun is such a great community. Lexi, our Parkrun photographer, has never run or walked Parkrun but she takes photos every week. Everyone gives him high fives as we go along. We just love Parkrun.</div>
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Kevin finishes his first Parkrun in his 50 shirt.</div>
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As a side note, I have finally recieved notification that mine has been sent. 6 months after completing my 50.</div>
<br />Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-53801743297806874012018-06-17T13:12:00.001+10:002018-06-17T13:13:35.880+10:00My footy careerLast year I took the plunge and decided to join a footy team during their pre season. I've never played, only watched. At then, 35 years old, it probably seems like a really dumb idea. Given the amount of injuries I've had I would probably have to agree however I have loved every minute of it.<br />
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Playing footy has taken a big toll on the family. I am out two nights a week for more than two hours for training and then for about three hours minimum on game day. Juggling that and a large family has been a big task but fortunately everyone has adjusted well to the routine and I manage to fit in the jobs I would normally do during those times away from the family at other times. I also have a fabulous husband who picks up a lot of the slack.<br />
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My most recent and my most severe injury has been a broken nose which I got during a training session almost three weeks ago. I was able to put my nose back in place myself of the field but since the swelling has gone down I now know it wasn't put back properly in line and I have a bump on the bridge on my nose as well as on one side. The doc did say a professional at emergency would most likely have not been able to do a better job and she said it was better straight.<br />
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I wish I'd taken a photo when my face was at its worst. I'm looking mighty fine now.</div>
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I've played the three games since I broke it and have been very mindful of protecting my face but have still gone in for my usual hard tackles.<br />
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The bruising has almost completely disappeared however there is still a bit of pain along my nose. I still can't sniff, blow my nose or wash my face without pain but it is slowly getting better. If only the kids would stop head butting me when they come in for a cuddle.<br />
<br />Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-57073761340673817092015-04-02T21:33:00.002+10:002015-04-02T21:53:44.014+10:00Enjoying being a MumAfter working so much over the last few weeks I spent this week doing things
with and for my kids. It made me feel amazing. It made me feel like I was
connecting with them again. Working and having time away from your kids isn’t
all it’s cracked up to be. The last few weeks have really had an impact on the
kids so I’m glad I could make it up to them.<br />
I was called into work on Monday and told them I couldn’t come in. Walking to
kindy Lisa asked me if I could be the parent helper today so after changing the
home readers in Hannah’s class I packed lunches for Kevin and I and headed back
to kindy. <br />
It was fabulous to see Lisa in action with her friends. It was so lovely to
see the way her friends responded to her. She is such a lovely girl. She is
smart and kind and so helpful to others. I was so proud to just watch her. <br />
Kevin of course participated in all the activities. He is so ready for kindy
now even with almost two years to go until he can start. He fitted in really
well and the kids from pre-kindy last year already knew him and invited him to
play their games and to sit with them to eat his lunch. <br />
I tried to observe Lisa and not play with her too much. It was so much fun
playing with the hoola hoops with the kids, playing in the sandpit, helping a
boy make this really cool kayak and paddle, playing in home corner, making train
tracks and playing with blocks. <br />
Here are some dodgy photos taken on my phone of our little day together. I
was very mindful of taking photographs of other children. I was also conscious
of not having my phone out because I wanted my time to be all about Lisa. She
thought it was the best thing ever that I came to her kindy for the day. I can’t
wait to go again next term. <br />
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Calling Grandpuff in Geneva because that’s what normal 4 year olds do. I
can’t believe she even remembered that’s where he was this week. <br />
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If you get the chance to spend a day at your kids’ kindy please do. You will
love it and they will remember it for a long time.Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-22688996250321024992015-03-05T12:50:00.000+10:002015-03-05T12:50:26.205+10:00Sometimes OK is enoughI have had one of those mornings. You know the ones. The ones where nothing
really goes wrong but nothing really goes right either. I even got up early to
make the rush of the morning less stressful, to make more time to get more
things done. <br />
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I’ve started doing supply teaching this year and I’ve been getting quite a
bit of work. I’m thoroughly enjoying being back in the classroom. I like the
interaction with the kids. I enjoy teaching and helping and I just enjoy a lunch
time where I don’t have to listen to kids arguing or demanding vegemite not
peanut butter. I like that I get to go to the toilet when I need to and not when
it fits around my two kids who are at home during the day. I like the adult
conversation at lunch time. <br />
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Monday I worked so I started the week a little behind schedule and that has
had a knock on effect to the rest of the household. Hollie had a break down or
two about stuffing up her viola playing and then about not getting her story
draft written to a standard she thought acceptable. I had not made it a priority
to sit down with her and help her with these to issues over the past few days as
my priorities were elsewhere. Note that I didn’t say I don’t have time because
clearly I do have time if I choose not to do something else. Everyone has time.
I’m a mother of 5. I know about having time and commitments. I really felt like
I had let Hollie down even though I know it is her responsibility to get these
jobs done before today. Hollie went to school upset. I went on with my day
upset. <br />
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Kevin was throwing a tantrum because I’d opened the can of dog food for him.
He didn’t want to go to school because we’d upset him. On the way to school his
shoe fell off and the tantrum started again. I didn’t have the patience for him.
Again, I felt like I’d let him down. <br />
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As we were leaving for school Lisa couldn’t find her shoes. These were left
in Daddy’s car yesterday when he picked up Lisa from kindy as I was at an
appointment. This was a small issue but turned into a big one because she cried
and I didn’t have the patience to deal with the tantrum because we were already
running late to buy a new school uniform and take Hannah to the library at
school so I told Lisa to get into the pram. Yes, a four year old in a pram! Our
rule is you aren’t allowed to go to school with no shoes on. The librarian made
Lisa cry when she made comment about Lisa’s lack of shoes because she knows our
rules too. If only I’d taken the time to let her find new shoes this wouldn’t
have happened. Again, I felt like I’d let her down. <br />
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After buying the uniforms and taking Hannah to the library to borrow a book I
went to her classroom to see if the teacher wanted help with changing the
readers because they weren’t done yesterday. This is usually my job in Hannah’s
class because no other parent does it. Yesterday I didn’t do it partly because I
had to drop Hollie at her first day of the maths/science academy she was
accepted into and then dropped Lisa and a friend’s daughter at kindy and partly
because I was still trying to catch up on house work from being at work on
Monday and I had a group of ladies coming over at 10am. I know I shouldn’t feel
guilty about not changing the readers but I can’t help it. I love seeing kids
learning. I love books and know how important reading is. I also know that
essentially this is the actual teacher’s job but I also know it takes at least
half an hour to do and I don’t know where she is going to find that time. This
time not only did I feel as though I’d let Hannah down but her whole class and
her teacher as well. <br />
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I know all of this is not really anything but I feel like I’m not doing
anything well at the moment. I feel like I’m merely doing life OK. I’m not doing
it better than OK. I’m stretched thin in all directions. When I got to playgroup
all tired and worn out I just cried. I didn’t want to cry in front of my friends
but I just felt like I was doing a terrible job of everything. After a hug from
my friend I felt a lot better though. We are all Mums and we all have bad
days/bad weeks. When I got home I text my husband and told him I needed a hug.
When I told him what the matter was (that I felt like I was doing life OK not
great. I wasn’t being a great Mum I was being an OK Mum. I wasn’t being a great
housewife I was being on OK one. I wasn’t being a great worker I was being an OK
one) he told me being OK is OK. That’s why it’s called OK. He made me laugh and
I know he is right. I can’t be amazing all the time. Sometimes OK is enough.
Tomorrow will be a better day. I hope.Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-11567993354782257232014-06-18T15:33:00.001+10:002014-06-18T15:33:44.179+10:00What you shouldn’t do when toilet training<p>Now you think I would know how to do it after training 4 kids. You would think after lecturing people, yes I do believe I lecture people in regard to toilet training, I would know what not to do. Well, I’m here to tell you with baby number 5 I have broken almost every one of my toilet training rules.</p> <p>I had a friend today say I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. I should be ok with the fact that at almost 2 he’s going to the toilet at home. Oh, believe me I am very happy about that. I’m not happy that I am too scared this time to let him go without nappies to the shops, playgroup, friends’ houses, in the car, anywhere. Why is that? </p> <p>Since forever I have lectured my friends and their friends and told them, “Don’t put them back in nappies. You just send them backwards.” I know. I’ve seen it in my friend’s kids. I know what I’m doing is stupid and has long term consequences. I know it is only prolonging the whole terrible experience that is toilet training. Trust me. I KNOW. </p> <p>I’ve had kids wee in their sibling’s classroom. I’ve had wee on the floor in the supermarket. I’ve had accidents on carpets at playgroup and on the couch at home. I’ve had wee in the carseat and the pram. I’ve dealt with this for basically 5.5 years. What is wrong with me this time? </p> <p>My friend today said, “It’s not like he’s going to go to kindy wearing a nappy.” I know. I know I shouldn’t let this get to me. I guess it will eat away at me until I can finally bite the bullet and do this properly. The way I have told everyone else to toilet train their kids.  I also know without a doubt this is my problem and not his. I know he is capable of going in public without wetting and I know even if he does it’s not the end of the world. I know the problem. I’m lazy.</p> <p>This has been my whole argument over the years regarding other people not toilet training their kids early like I have. It comes down to what’s important and right now it is not important enough for me to make him go to the toilet in public and deal with the accidents so I’m being lazy. Yes, I’m being lazy. I know I am and it is not something I like to associate with myself. I am being lazy because I know he can do it. He’s been going to the toilet or potty for more than 6 months now. I guess I have to get myself in the mindset to toilet train him for the public. </p> Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-36155532244802590682013-12-10T21:43:00.000+10:002013-12-10T21:43:14.975+10:00Having a VBACAre you thinking of having a VBAC?<br />
What is a VBAC? Why would I post about having a VBAC? <br />
Recently I have been asked by two of my friends to give them some information on my experiences having a VBAC? I thought there might be quite a few ladies out there who want some first hand information. So what is a VBAC? Vaginal Birth After Caesarean. <br />
I have had 3 VBACs. Every birth after a caesarean is called a VBAC. My first was a natural delivery, my second was an emergency caesarean and my last 3 were VBACS. Yes, I’m one of those crazy people who have a thousand kids. My first VBAC I researched and researched. I lived in a rural community and was not permitted to have the VBAC in the local hospital. The Royal Flying Doctors could only guarantee they would be there in 4 hours and if there was a rupture of the scar tissue that is not soon enough. I believe I was very lucky to have a doctor who was from Africa. He had delivered thousands of babies, yes, thousands, I’m not making that up. He had delivered many VBACs in very unsavoury conditions. His belief was that in Australia with our class of surgeons even our GPs and our sterile environments that everyone should be delivering vaginally after a caesarean if it was medically possible. I was lucky that he told me what a ruptured scar felt like, as much as a man can tell a woman anything about labour, and was able to put my mind at rest. He had delivered quite a number of babies in Africa in slums and villages where the scar had ruptured and both mother and child had survived. He did tell me though that the more babies I had after the caesarean the more chances I had of the scar rupturing. <br />
I am not basing my whole belief about VBACs on his words but he did give me confidence to make a go of a VBAC. In my research I found that the Australian heart rate norms, those that they use to see if the baby is in distress or in danger, is quite a bit outside of the World Health Organisation (WHO) acceptable rates meaning in Australia we are more conservative variations of foetal heart rate. Why are they so concerned about foetal heart rate? It gives an indication if the scar has ruptured and if the baby is in distress. <br />
I found that the greater the amount of medical intervention the greater the risk of caesarean and repeat caesarean. In most instances woman naturally have a period in their labour where their labour stalls for a short time. Some woman the length is longer but more often than not this period will occur at the same time every labour. For me it was 5 cm. Some women stalled at 8 etc, etc. Women who chose to only be monitored intermittently had a higher chance of having a successful VBAC compared to those who were hooked up to machines the whole time. The studies surmised two reasons for this. Firstly, the labouring woman wasn’t free to move about and thus the labour was stalled because the woman was more often on a bed or sitting in a chair and not moving around the birthing room. Secondly, hospital staff saw any increase or decrease in heart rate or contraction intensity and were quick to insist on another caesarean.<br />
According to medical teams I spoke to the longer you are in labour the greater the risk of a rupture to the scar. In my first VBAC I was very aware of my long labours. My waters had broken with Hollie (my first) at 12am and I started having contractions 6 mins apart from then, slowly increasing in frequency until she was born at 4pm that day. That is a long time to be in labour with contractions that strong and that close together. I knew I had long labours so I didn’t tell the hospital when they admitted me how long I had been in labour. I was in labour for 18 hours before Hannah, my first VBAC, was born. <br />
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Hannah, the first VBAC<br />
During Hannah’s labour I arrived at the hospital and all the 6 birth suites were full. I had to pace outside in the corridor while they cleaned a room for me. I was lucky in a sense because they left us be. I asked not to be continuously monitored and they were fine with that. At 5 cm they let me in the bath, which technically I wasn’t supposed to do but in my first labour it was something that calmed me down. They would come in regularly and check on me and put the monitors on my belly. I was able to walk around and operate like any normal labour. I also asked not to have a canula in because when I labour I like to grab things and I didn’t want the needle thing shoving into my hand as I gripped. I know people are thinking how many risks I was taking but I remember when I had my caesarean that the surgeon said she could get a baby out 30 seconds after the anaesthetics were administered. To me that means baby will survive. Hannah was born in the sack and it was probably the most rewarding birth I have had. She was born 7 minutes before midnight, I cut her cord and hugged her and hugged her because we had done it. Against all the risks and all the people who put doubt in my mind, we did it. Her poor Dad didn’t get to hug her on her birth day. She’s the only one of his kids that he didn’t but there wasn’t much time left in that day and the day was all for us.<br />
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This is probably one of my favourite photos ever. The is just the proudest and most wonderful Dad. I am a very lucky wife.<br />
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Lovely Lisa, my 2nd VBAC.<br />
When I had Lisa, my 2<sup>nd</sup> VBAC, I was in my rural community and because I’d had my scar tested with Hannah’s birth I was able to deliver Lisa in the local hospital, however I had to agree to be constantly hooked up to machines or they wouldn’t allow me to birth there. Lisa was 15 days late. Yes, 15 days! Can you imagine how I felt for those last 15 days? All of my children have been late except my caesarean. She was three weeks early. Lisa was due on the 16<sup>th</sup> of December and the doctors were going to induce me on Christmas Eve and I said, “Do you want to spend your Christmas here with me or at home with your family?” They decided that at home was the best option so I was monitored every day for 1-1.5hours. I really didn’t want them to break my waters or to intervene in any way. All the research I had read said that was a bad idea. In the end they ended up breaking my waters, which did nothing, and eventually they put the oxytocin drip in me. Normally they don’t do that for VBACs but they believed they had a greater control over that than anything else and they could turn the drip off if they needed to. The drip worked straight away and I started having contractions. It wasn’t very pleasant because I was hooked up to all the monitors and the clip off the baby’s head came off about 40 mins before she was born and the second clip didn’t clip on so the doc had to go up there again to stick the clip on. Not fun at that time of the labour. In the end it was a fabulous labour because it was so quick. Over and done with in 2.5 hours. I felt like I could run around the block after that. <br />
If you want a VBAC I say go for it. If you think, like I did, the recovery after a natural birth is a lot easier give a VBAC a go. Post natal depression increases with caesareans. A VBAC give you the chance to be less dependent on people. When I had Jessica and the nurses said to me not to pick up anything heavier than the baby, I thought, “ Which one?” Hollie was still a baby at the time. She was 13 months old. I had to pick her up when she needed me. If you think you can have a natural birth do some research. I admit it was very difficult to find a balanced or an alternative view. Most of what comes up in google searches are by American doctors who seem so scared of the worst possible thing happening. I know I would have not forgiven myself if something terrible had happened to Hannah but I also knew I had enough facts to do it and do it with confidence. <br />
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Kevin, my 3rd VBAC<br />
I wrote out a birth plan specifying under what conditions I would have another caesarean and at what points I would have medical intervention. This is something I encourage any one thinking about having a VBAC do. If nothing else it clarifies in your mind what you believe and what you want. <br />
Do some research and if you have any more questions please let me know how I can help.Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-36371470755240181992013-12-03T14:45:00.001+10:002013-12-03T14:45:44.162+10:00Toilet Training<p>There are a few things about parenting that I am a firm believer in and it would take a lot, and I mean a lot, to persuade me to alter my view. One of the issues is toilet training. This is a hugely controversial issue. It seems that most people don’t hold my view and I’m ok with that. I stand from the point of having toilet trained 4 kids and am about to attempt to train the 5<sup>th</sup>. I therefore feel I have at least some basis for my viewpoint. </p> <p>So what is your view Amity? My view on toilet training is easier the younger you do it the easier it is. What? How can that be? I don’t view toilet training as a difficult thing. It is an essential part of parenting. My opponents, if that’s a word in parenting, advocate toilet training when a child is ready. Normally people feel like a child is “ready” when they are around 3.5 years old (from my 7 years of being involved in playgroups and music programs and chatting with many, many parents over these days). My belief is that parents have missed the first signs of being ready. My son is 15 months old and he is currently showing signs of being ready to toilet train. Are you serious? Yes I am. My second daughter was completely toilet trained by 15 months and dry through the night by about 19 months. I can’t actually remember when it was because she just did it but it was just after my third daughter was born. </p> <p>How can I tell that Kevin, aged 15 months, is ready for toilet training? There are many signs but here are a few of the most common.</p> <p>He is very curious about any of us going to the toilet. He comes into the toilet and watches. I know that some of you are cringing right now but I have pretty much had an open door policy on the toilet because otherwise I would never get to go or there would be huge tantrums and break downs outside the toilet door. </p> <p>Kevin has started to pull his nappy off. Luckily I have not had him pull it off when it has been soiled. He has pulled it off many times though when the nappy has been full of wee. When he is wearing modern cloth nappies (MCN) he will pull them off as soon as he has done a wee. </p> <p>He comes to me as soon as he’s done a number 2 in his nappy. In the last few days if I don’t jump up straight away to change him he will toddle off and get the packet of wipes and bring those back to me. He is showing signs that he doesn’t like the sensation in his nappy. Probably a month ago he started to pull at the crotch of his nappy when he thought his nappy was full. He wasn’t walking at all at this stage so I wasn’t prepared to toilet train him then because I wanted him to be able to make his way to the toilet. </p> <p>I think a large part of the problem with parents saying their children aren’t ready is that they are missing all the signs. I know with Hannah, number 3 child, I missed the window. She used to come to me when she was about 15 months with a nappy in her hand and she would say, “Pappy, pappy” and she was wanting me to change her nappy. I was pregnant with number 4 at the time and I was so ill with morning sickness I couldn’t face toilet training her at that time so I would just change the nappy. She was my most difficult to toilet train when we started at 18 months. She is a very determine young lady though and I think part of her problem was someone was telling her to do something and she wanted to be the one making the decisions about her self and her body. Once I stopped talking to her about going to the toilet and ignoring her she decided to go by herself.</p> <p>I think another problems parents in the Western world face is the propaganda the nappy companies have dished out over the last 15 years. Of course they want parents to toilet train their children later because it means more money in their pockets. In 3rd world countries children are toilet trained at a very young age. They begin the process very early on. I know in China they start as soon as the baby is born and they will make a noise while the baby is toileting. This then creates a Pavlov’s Dog response when the noise is made later on. It stands to reason. These people don’t have the money or the time to have kids in nappies. </p> <p>Look out for the signs and you will see how easy it is to toilet train your toddler.</p> Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-69651077838742295512013-11-27T11:51:00.001+10:002013-11-27T11:51:51.193+10:00HusbandsI am extremely lucky to have such a wonderful husband. He makes my heart all warm and fuzzy just thinking about him. Am I being serious? Hell yes. Does he frustrate the *beep* out of me? Hell yes. Why am I so lucky then?<div><br></div><div>When I see those beautiful old couples walking along holding hands I know that will be us. How do I know? I don't know, I just know. People say you can never know what the future holds and that is absolutely true but if he is alive I know he will be taking my hand as we walk along. I know he will walk next to the road to protect me. When we first started going out I thought it was a strange thing that he did that. His dad does that to his wife an any woman he walks next to. It is so special that there are men in this world like them. I know that my husband will be the one to annoy me by pinching the excess skin at my elbows. He knows how much it annoys me but at the same time he knows that he is the only one who gets away with doing it and yes, he loves that. </div><div><br></div><div>We have been through a lot. We have five children and God knows that takes its toll. We have suffered the loss of a child through miscarriage. We have endured a long distance relationship from time to time as the situation dictates was necessary. We have had rough patches. I mean who doesn't? </div><div><br></div><div>I would say we are perfectly suited for each other even though in most respects we are complete opposites. My flaws are his strengths and if you know Mr Knight you know he doesn't have too many flaws. Hahaha. Seriously, we work well together. </div><div><br></div><div>I have this find hope that everyone can be as happy as I am. Find someone who compliments them as well as we do. Find someone who brings out the best I'm them. I know I am so lucky. I know what I have isn't easy to come by. I know what I have is special and that's why I know when I'm old and grey with leathery skin and droopy bits everywhere that he will still hold my hand and love me for who I am and what we have together. </div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div>Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-84807786990418116382013-05-25T08:01:00.001+10:002013-05-25T22:08:31.364+10:00Realisations.Ever wondered whether you married the right person? This week I've attended the Stampin' Up! convention. I've travelled by train each morning to the convention centre in Brisbane and I've watched these mothers rush to work (I've overheard them talk of their children because essentially I'm a sticky beak) and I've felt very blessed to be able to be the one who stays home with the kids and have a husband who actually wants this lifestyle for his family. <br>
I have realised how tough these women have it. On the first morning of the convention I left home at 6:50am and didn't get home until 7pm. The kids were already in bed when I got home. I'd seen them briefly in the morning before I left. That was really tough for me. I missed them so much. Don't get me wrong, I had a wonderfully inspiring and fun time at convention and I didn't think of them that often but it broke my heart to see so little of them all day and I wonder how hard it is for working mothers to only see their kids at those horribly rushed times of the day. <br>
I am fortunate we bought a house which we could afford to pay off on one wage. I don't have to work unless I want to or it fits in with the lifestyle we want for our family. <br>
Kevin and I are massively different. Gosh, who knew. We are polar opposites in so many ways but when it comes to what we want for our family and what we believe is best for them we are so similar. I married someone with my family belief system and I am truly grateful for that. I know I married the right man for me. My heart still swells and skips a beat when I see him and didn't expect to. <br>
For everything you have done for us this week, my love, I am grateful. For what you do day in day out to support our family I am eternally grateful. I'm glad it is you who leaves the house each day to miss out on the kids lives and earn the money. Thank you. <br><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhSJdL90sN28h4l8L5mKnQ-6PBGW1_GMJj7bTfUuZfZYBkQ1KYgbFKkMdgv2386zHiwq8NcfzsWEDWgN-ifew8OExu07aROmhJXLxC9w328xM8mhmLodpShxQrQWMsa0wq2jW9fTo2ge7N/s640/blogger-image--64494933.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhSJdL90sN28h4l8L5mKnQ-6PBGW1_GMJj7bTfUuZfZYBkQ1KYgbFKkMdgv2386zHiwq8NcfzsWEDWgN-ifew8OExu07aROmhJXLxC9w328xM8mhmLodpShxQrQWMsa0wq2jW9fTo2ge7N/s640/blogger-image--64494933.jpg"></a></div>Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-34889188406746311612012-11-07T11:07:00.000+10:002012-11-07T11:07:41.690+10:00Gifted children<div style="text-align: justify;">
We have thought for a while our lovely little Jessica is a gifted child. She has spoken well from a very young age, speaking in full sentences since she was 18 months old and singing nursery rhymes from an even earlier age. Last term we attended Jessica's prep interview. We have been tossing up the idea of early entry to year 1 for a while now but the cost of the tests and the process seemed a little too much for us considering it isn't up to the school to approve the early entry but the district director who will never actually meet her. I took a school library book of Hollie's the interview and Jessica read it while we waited. Hollie, year 1, borrows from the year 3 section of the library at her teacher's request. The deputy principal doing the interview wasn't so impressed with a nearly 5 year old reading at an 8 year old level as it is quite common for girls especially to read early but she was impressed when we showed her Jessica's writing and spelling. She sat up and was visibly shocked by what she saw. Couple her literacy level with her numeracy levels there is no way she will cope with prep. She will be bored out of her brains. The deputy was the one who suggested we do an early entry. We didn't have to say anything. I didn't want to be one of those parents marching in there and telling the school how amazing my kid was.</div>
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<span style="text-align: justify;">I know almost every parent thinks their kid is very bright or skilled with a particular thing. I have many friends who insist t</span><span style="text-align: center;">heir kids are very bright, above average, gifted even. When I look at Jessica who was reading Hollie's prep readers when she was 3 and reading them with the top readers in prep I know Jessica is gifted. This was confirmed last week when the school's Guidance Officer did an intelligence test on Jessica to support our application to early entry to year 1. Jessica was tested and came out as having "Superior intelligence" as her results were in the 95 percentile which means only 5% of children her age are smarter than her. </span><br />
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Then I think about Hannah who is 3.5 years old and created her own perfectly stamped and punched birthday card for her cousin and wrote the entire card by herself and I wonder about Hannah too. Hannah's card to Gemma read, "To Gemma love and hugs Hannah" which she needed help spelling "love" and "hugs" but was able to work out the letters when I sounded them out except the e on love. She was most proud that she could now write a G all by herself. I have not taught her to write. I have written a lot with her, labelling pictures, writing on the fridge, just general mum stuff. We have read a lot and she picks up words all the time. Tonight we had a book that had "we" on every page and by the end she knew which word was we. I'll see if she remembers it tomorrow. She is so curious about writing and reading and spelling at the moment that we just explore together. I don't teach her. I don't think I do anything special with them. I give them my time. We share and have fun together (most of the time, I'm not a perfect Mum- far from it. Yes, I yell at my kids, I'm not angel.) The children have learnt through example, time and exposure. Maybe this is what mums did in a previous era. Is it possible that the time I spend with them and not the money I spend on gadgets or educational toys that has made the difference? I really don't know. What I do know though is they have a love of learning. Hopefully I can continue to foster that in them and they carry that into their adult lives. </div>
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Hopefully we'll find out at the end of this week whether the district director has approved the application. I know that if he doesn't she is going to be a huge strain on the teachers next year. I think even if she is advanced her teachers will have to modify their work to be able to cater for her ability. It will be just the same as having a child with a disability in the classroom. Let's hope there is someone else of similar ability to be able to work with her.</div>
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Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-60066000490072821552012-10-19T14:55:00.004+10:002012-10-19T14:56:42.345+10:00Exercise that bodyAs promised I have actually taken photos of my body, clothed, to hopefully document the HUGE changes which are about to occur. The photos don't actually look that bad. I think the tight clothing hides a great deal. You know that post baby belly with it's wrinkled, stretched marked skins and the fatty saggy bits. Who said motherhood wasn't glamorous? Glamorous. I wear my marks with pride because I know without
them I wouldn’t have what I have and I wouldn’t give it up for the world. I am
so grateful for what I have and even if that means I’m not able to reach my
goal of 10kms by my birthday, mid January, then I’m ok with that too. I think
it is better to have a goal than to plod along and hope everything will be ok
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Here are the photos. I know it will take at least 3 months
to notice a significant difference in photos. Possibly in real life you may be
able to notice a difference. I can usually tell when I start to decrease the
size of my double chin. I’m hoping I notice my arms beginning to strengthen
too. I’m aiming to be able to do a 200m medley by January. At the moment I’m
doing only 100m with flippers because I’m too much of a chicken to try one
without. I also know that my backstroke doesn’t hold up. I'd just like to thank Hollie for taking the photos this morning. </div>
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On a family note, my sister in law gave my mother in law a large canvas photo
of their first born at approx 6 weeks old. Kevin and I decided it would be nice
if she could hang all the kids together so we made up canvases of the kids at
approx 6 weeks old too. We have been trying since Kevin Joshua was 5 weeks old
to get a photo of him smiling. We have managed to capture a few blurred ones on
our phones but nothing we could print. Every time we bring out the camera he
stops smiling even with tickles. Over the last 3 weeks we have taken 100s of
photos trying to get a good print. He always turns away from the camera. Is this
a sign of things to come? I’m going to post some of those attempts at smiling
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Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-77523540007097935392012-10-15T11:58:00.000+10:002012-10-15T11:59:23.301+10:00Measurements and weight loss<div>
The diet plan hasn't really worked. I'm not sticking to my rules. I have eaten outside of the set times. I have broken my treat days. See <a href="http://knightsinthecastle.blogspot.com.au/2012/10/10-on-10th-getting-fit-post-baby.html">my rules</a> here to get an idea of what I mean. In fact I've developed a love of white bread which is really bad. I have never really eaten white bread and during this pregnancy I just loved it and craved it. Now it is a habit that is hard to kick. Instead of just having one sandwich for lunch I've been having two. Naughty however I have managed to continue exercising every day, except this morning. I will have to make sure I go for a run tonight. Buddy's going to get lucky tonight. He'll get to go twice. Once with me and then with Kevin. I am very grateful to Sarah who has kept me motivated and on track. Tomorrow is walking day and I'm planning lunges and squats on the walk too. </div>
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I am entering the 3rd week of my exercise routine. Swimming or walking every day for those 2 weeks except the day I was very sick. I'm pretty happy with that. It feels good. Kevin always says I need to get up early and get going. It's very difficult when it's cold in winter or when you're pregnant and have very little energy but I agree with him, hear that Honey you are right!, I do operate mush better when I get up and have some time alone or time to wake up before I deal with 4 or 5 nagging children. I've always been a morning person, as in I like being up in the morning. I don't necessarily like communicating early in the morning. I don't like questions being constantly asked and my attention required constantly. I like the mornings. I'm glad I'm doing the early morning exercise. </div>
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I've finally got around to measuring myself. See my measurements below. Last week at the doctors I had lost weight since Kevin's 10 day check up. In 4 weeks I'd lost 1.6kgs. I'm pretty happy with that. I've read a lot that says a breastfeeding mother shouldn't shed more than half a kg a week so I'm happy with the loss I've had.<br />
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Measurements 15th October</div>
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right arm 13.2</div>
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left arm 14</div>
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bust 43</div>
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belly button 41.5</div>
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hips 42.5</div>
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bottom 46</div>
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left thigh 26.7</div>
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right thigh 27.1</div>
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Before we moved I had all of my measurements written on the mirror in our bedroom. I tracked them for 8 months. It was great to see the measurements decrease over time and then increase with muscle gain. Unfortunately I cleaned the mirror without taking a photo. I remember my dear friend, Leesa, did but I don't know whether she deleted the photo or not. I'll have to check with her.</div>
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I still haven't been organised enough to take a photo. I'm a little scared to be honest. I was very keen to start with. Now I'm not so sure. </div>
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Until Friday my dear friends and family.</div>
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Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-1760786934484556162012-10-11T13:28:00.000+10:002012-10-11T13:28:29.185+10:0010 on the 10th Getting fit post baby<br />
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I wrote a blog post here about my desire to get fit and
healthy. I didn’t, as I promised I would do, measure myself and post my results
here. I will endeavour to find the measuring tape to do that this week. For
some reason the measuring tape is not in the sewing box. I might have to bite
the bullet and buy a new one. I know measuring myself is a far better way to
measure my results than by standing on the scales. More of those measurements
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Here is my plan to eat well and get fit. </div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]-->1.1.<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> </span><!--[endif]-->Have a support person. For me that is actually
two people. Firstly Kevin, who will kick me out of bed if necessary or like
this week when he smsed my 2<sup>nd</sup> support person to say I was too sick
to exercise (I must have been very sick for him to insist I don’t attend.) and
secondly my exercise buddy. She is someone who I know won’t miss our sessions,
won’t find an excuse like it’s too cold or the kids have been up all night. She
will commit 100% which is why I didn’t want to miss this morning’s walk because
I don’t want to break the cycle and cause the commitment to lessen.</div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]-->2.2<span style="font-size: 7pt;"> . </span><!--[endif]-->Don’t buy treats in the shopping. If it’s not
there you can’t eat it. I’m not a bit buyer of food for outside the home so the
temptation to eat unhealthily outside the home is rare.</div>
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weeks. Only buy for set meals. Not only does this mean you don’t have to think
about what to cook it also means you save money because food doesn’t go to
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technique which I found very helpful when quitting smoking and I guess the love
of food is also an addiction and so helps me quit that need to eat. The 4 Ds
are; Deep breath, Delay, Drink water, Do something else. These are the steps to take if you are
feeling like food but know it is only a short time to your set eating time.</div>
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Thursdays will involve yummy food as we have playgroup and the Mums always
provide nice food. I also know that during Friday night scrapbooking it is good
to eat chocolate or something sweet and yummy. I also know that by totally
banning a food group you only seem to crave it more, well I do anyway. I know
that by giving myself the freedom to indulge I am more likely to eat well the
rest of the time. It also means I can put in more effort during exercise on
those days and plan to skip say morning or afternoon tea on those days to make
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hardest to start with but it ALWAYS feels good afterwards. I have found that
after 2 weeks you are in the habit of getting up early or leaving the dishes so
you can exercise. After that you’ll actually enjoy it and it’ll be part of your
life.</div>
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like to start with. You can always introduce new recipes or less enjoyable
foods once the need for sugar or fat has gone from your system. Things taste
better once they are out of your system and you don’t depend on them so much.</div>
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lose 1 kg a week if you know you realistically can’t. I know for me, being a
breastfeeding mother, it is not something that is recommended. Similarly don’t
think you can eat a salad for dinner every night if you know your kids are
going to fight you all the way. Make choices which are family friendly and are
realistic.</div>
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on taking to take control of my health. What do you do? What else could I
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Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-67877021793480701882012-10-01T12:44:00.000+10:002012-10-01T12:45:27.356+10:00Returning to exercise post baby<br />
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I’m going to publically announce my weight. The reason for
doing this is twofold. Firstly I want a record of where I’ve come from when I
get to my goal weight and my first fitness goal. Secondly, having almost
reached my pre-first pregnancy weight prior to my most recent pregnancy I want
you to know it can be done. In November last year, 2011, I got down to 75kgs
which was 2kgs off my pre-pregnancy weight of my first child in 2005. My goal
weight is actually 70kgs as that was my constant weight for years prior to my first
pregnancy. Fast forward 7 years and I now have 5 children and I am now, wait
for it ....... 89kgs. Prior to giving birth 5 weeks ago I was 97kgs. So you can
see I have a long way to go however I have already started exercising and now
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Unlike after my last pregnancy I don’t have the resources; a
wonderful bootcamp instructor, an impressive walking partner (who walked with
me rain, hail or shine) or the money to invest in my health. However, unlike
last time I have more motivation. This time I know I can do it. Last time I was
very unsure of my ability to lose weight. I’ve done it before so I know it can
be done. I also know it will take time. It took me from January to November to
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For me, it’s not necessarily about losing weight, it’s about
feeling good about myself and setting a great example for my kids, my girls in
particular. I was always a very fit person before having children. My Mum set a
great example to my siblings and myself and we were always very sporty, in fact
my sister and I still hold records in swimming and athletics at our primary
school. My own children are very academic and very competitive so when they
don’t measure up physically to other children they get disheartened. I want to
show them it is ok to not be amazing to start with, or ever but you should give
it a ago and that having a healthy lifestyle is one of the most important
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Tomorrow when the weather is a bit better, it’s currently
raining and cold, I will get my darling husband to take some photos and measure
me. I will also upload these to show you what I’m starting at. Over the next
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Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-18081658941307288262012-09-24T18:47:00.001+10:002012-09-24T19:00:17.800+10:00Moments in timeI have to take time with my newest addition at night. During the day life is very hectic with four other children and I don't get as much time as I'd like to sit and cuddle and adore my little darling Kevin. Night times for me are very special. Day time often involves fighting the kids off Kevin. I'll often find Lisa has shoved a teddy right next to him or tucked a blanket over him. Hollie wants to cuddle him constantly and when it's a school day she walks in the door and it's not, "Hello Mum," it's, "Can I hold Kevin?"<br />
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I adore the new baby smell. The soft skin. The cute little noises they make. Babies are just the sweetest things. I could have hundreds of them but I hate being pregnant and babies don't stay babies for long at all. <br />
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I'm off to comfort and cuddle and kiss my darling little Kevin. <br />
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1. He makes time for us every day. He knows how important it is for us to connect daily. Our lives are so busy. 5 kids, 1 dog, 2 cats and 5 chickens makes our lives full and hectic. From day one he has made the effort to put me and us first even when he knows I'm not putting him first. I love him for this.<br />
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2. He is the most amazing Dad in the world. Anyone can be a father but only special men get to be Dads. He is one of those. I am so grateful to have married a man who really appreciates and values his role as a Dad. The kids all adore him which is testament to his dedication to them.<br />
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3. He makes me laugh. As frustrating as he sometimes is he manages to make me laugh every day. He teases me, tickles me, shares his stories from work, tells me jokes. He makes me laugh at myself. I love that he can put a smile on my face and make me feel so young and carefree.<br />
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4. He values what I do as a mother at home. I know sometimes it feels as though he doesn't value the effort it takes to wash, fold and iron 3 loads of washing or how many times I've tidied those particular toys away in one day but I know he does. He loves that I am home with our kids and not at work. He appreciates the lessons I teach the kids and the love I give them when I'm with them. I am glad he doesn't want me to go back to work any time soon.<br />
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5. He's such a supportive husband. After every new baby he cooks every evening meal for the first 4 or more weeks. How amazing it that? He fixes things, tidies, cleans and helps with the kids without being asked. Who wouldn't love this man?<br />
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6. If I give him a list of jobs he will do it. He will do what needs to be done to help me around the house. It took a few years for us to sort out this system. Prior to the list system I would get frustrated that I'd have to nag him to do jobs. With the list system I write out this list and he does the jobs in his time. AND he's quite efficient too.<br />
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7. He is deeply religious and has changed my life because of it. He has shown me a way to live my life. He has shown me another world. Thank you darling.<br />
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8. He supports my hobby. He values my hobby. He enjoys the discussions we both have about our hobbies. He encourages me to spend money on my hobby, maybe that's so he doesn't feel guilty about spending money on his hobby. LOL. Not many women have a husband who says spend my money.<br />
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9. He takes photos because they would be good to scrapbook like this photo of Lisa who fell asleep at the door to the girls' room because she wanted me to fill up one of my water bottles for her even though she had her own. He's a true scrapbooker's husband.<br />
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10. He holds my hand. Just that show of support when I'm sad or that affection. He also knows what it does to me. I love him dearly. I hope he still holds my hand when I'm 90.Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-92069699843497265882012-08-10T13:07:00.000+10:002012-08-10T13:07:55.218+10:0038 weeks pregnantThis is my last baby and I'm getting to the stage where I'm actually thinking I will miss being pregnant. I know it is ridiculous to say such a thing when you experience pregnancy like I do, 18 weeks of morning/all night sickness, reflux, varicose veins, the list really just goes on and on but knowing this is the last time I will feel those wonderful kicks, even when they keep me awake all night or knock my ribs out while I'm driving, and feeling the wonder that is the life growing in me, is a little sad. I have been very blessed. I already have four beautiful girls and another babe growing and I know once it is born, with each milestone, with each loosening of the apron strings I will mourn a little.<br />
I had to go into the birth suite during my midwife appointment on Monday because the baby had hardly moved since 6 am which is very unusual for it. They just wanted to check me out to make sure the baby and I were doing ok. It was a tad scary being in there. I have had 3 of my 4 babies in that hospital. None of the births, except maybe the casearean, were bad or left a horrible memory. I have had pretty straight forward births so far so it wasn't that. It was the memory of how painful birth actually is that was scary. I'm sure I don't really remember what it is like either. I'm sure if I did I wouldn't have signed up for it again. It is one of the worst things you go through but at least there is a wonderful prize at the end.<br />
The prize, amazingly, keeps on giving, although to be honest it is fairly one way in the other direction most of the time. Over the weekend we were lucky enough to spend time with just Hollie and Lisa. Jessica and Hannah both spent 2 nights at their grandparents.We thoroughly enjoyed our time with Hollie because it gave us the opportunity to shower her in attention. I thought I would include some photos of our lovely time flying the kite.<br />
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<span id="goog_987955007"></span><span id="goog_987955008"></span>Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-34156113438781020512012-06-28T21:37:00.000+10:002012-06-28T21:37:56.660+10:00Pregnancy week 32It isn't long until the bundle of joy arrives. So soon in fact that I'm starting to have a little freak out. As yet the only thing I have prepared are the maternity pads. Yay go me. No cot, no clothes, no sheets or bunny rugs. No capsule organised for the car, no baby bag or hospital bag packed. There are under 8 weeks to go which means this bub could come any time in the next 8 weeks. Am I super relaxed about it or just an experienced mother who knows that really I can have anything I need brought to me in hospital and hubby can do the rest of the organising while I'm in hospital? I haven't any birth plan and have only just organised someone to pick up and take Jessica to kindy if I happen to be in hospital on kindy days. Now I'm starting to feel a little like it could be tomorrow or any day now so get a wriggle along woman.<br />
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I've also started to freak out about actually giving birth. Even though I know it's ok and that I'll be able to do it, it's the long, drawn out labours I don't want. Induce me like they did with Lisa and have it over and done with in 2 hours and I'll be fine. Put me through 18 hours of natural labour and I'm scared. Not scared but fearful of the pain. It's funny though, I know as soon as labour starts it's ok. You know that sense of calm and purpose that comes over you? Kevin will read this and ask what calm? but ladies you know what I'm talking about. I think the thought of it (once you've done it before) is worse than the actual labour and every contraction is one step closer to meeting that beautiful baby. Oh it's so wonderful. I can't wait.<br />
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Any of you in South East Queensland at the moment will know the horrible weather we've been having lately. It is the school holidays and it has rained all week. It is the middle of winter (well nearly as Jessica rightly pointed out we have to wait until we're half way through July to be the middle of winter) and winter is usually the dry season. This is crazy weather for us. Today I went to the shops and slipped over outside a shop and landed on my bottom. Two old ladies picked me up. I was very shaken by the experience because it really hurt my tummy. For the next 90 mins the baby didn't move at all. That is very unlike this baby. Naturally I was a little concerned but I took myself off to bed and although my tummy is still sore the baby is moving like it usually does. Ahh. That was my little adventure for the day. Stay tuned for the update on Hollie's birthday. She turn 6 tomorrow. How scary is that?Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-59368076199356501982012-04-20T14:36:00.001+10:002012-04-20T15:16:27.482+10:00SAHM debate<div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;">About a month ago I blogged about working mothers <a href="http://knightsinthecastle.blogspot.com.au/2012/03/stay-at-home-mothers.html">here</a> and upset a few people. Sorry to those of you I upset. Maybe I should clarify a few things.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;">I love being a SAHM. I wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s not rose tinted glasses I’m wearing. It’s hard. One of my commentors even said she, "<span style="background-color: white; color: #800040; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', Trebuchet, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; text-align: left;">look(s) forward to Monday because she's (I'm) actually more relaxed at work than at home."</span> I’m not saying it’s not hard for working mothers. It’s different. Most of my friends are working mothers. Some even have their husbands stay home with the kids. Some days I would swap roles with them at the drop of a hat but mostly I love what I do. Isn’t that the most important thing? Some of the comments after my last post critised my choice to stay home as not giving my daughters anything to aspire to. I have not given up on my career. I have changed my career. My “real” career is on hold for a few years maybe longer. I don’t think I’m sending the wrong message to my daughters in saying that being a Mum at home is a good thing. They know I used to work and although they think all I do is wash clothes and do dishes they are slowly coming around to understanding how lucky they are to have me home with them. That I can go to reading groups with them at school or attend their award ceremony on parade. I can assist the teacher with the swimming class and changing over reading packs. Most working Mums don’t get this opportunity. I guess growing up I had the best of both worlds. My single Mum worked but she worked in jobs which allowed her to participate in my school activities and to be with us after school. I don’t believe my daughters aren’t missing out on seeing their Mum achieve in a career, they are seeing their Mum achieving in her new career. The career of being a Mum at home. Isn’t that something worth showing them too? Is it so bad to aspire to that? What about giving them the choice to be able to stay at home? Surely that is what the feminists should have promoted. The right to decide, not being forced in one way or another. I don’t want to be forced back to work. That is wrong just as it is wrong to say you must stay home.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"> I guess I was trying to make three separate points, obviously none of which I was able to clearly articulate.</div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;"> Firstly, the government here in Australia provides more funding, more incentives, more kindergarten rebates, higher government subsidies to working mothers. To me this equals society saying a working mother is more important. I can understand this to a certain extent because working mothers provide the government with a high income via taxation. I guess this is where some working mothers have in articles I’ve read put down Stay at home mothers as being bludgers because some of these SAHM never have an intention of working and would be the kind to only take benefits from the government and not work. This kind of SAHM is not me. I don’t get any assistance from the government for staying home. I guess the governments investment in working mothers is fuelled by the media who are fed the stories by the working mother writers or contributors. What I didn’t clearly articulate was my disgust in the media who feeds this government policy. I read a lot of forums and a lot of articles about motherhood but very rarely do they provide the perspective of a SAHM or their partner. Every article I’ve ever read about SAHMs gets slammed and beaten down by working mothers who feel they are being picked on. I think in general SAHMs are very supportive of working mothers but most are voiceless because they are at home and not in the media or governments interest or focus. Working mothers get more mileage simply because women have been at home with kids forever and working mothers are a relatively new thing and are currently feeling the pressure of trying to be a good provider for their families, for the careers and be a good mum too.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;">Secondly, my issue with working mothers is their choices. If they choose to work and they think it will benefit their family more than staying at home why whinge about it? To their friends. To the media. To the government. A majority of people actually have a choice about staying home. If the choice you make is because you want a career to fall back on in case of divorce, maybe you shouldn’t be having kids with this person in the first place. If money is the reason there are plenty of areas to cut back in so as to be able to make ends. Sure don’t move away from your support network but if you want to stay home change your lifestyle so you are able to. Buy home brands or go to the markets for cheap vegies and fruit or be like one of my commentors and retrain so you can be at home. If you’re happy to be at work don’t bug us with how hard you have it. I know it’s hard. I did it BUT I didn’t complain about having to do it. That was my role in our family. I did it because I had to so I’m not disrespecting working mothers. That would be having a go at myself and I was a lucky working mother. I had my husband at home to look after our baby, go shopping, wash clothes, cook meals and clean the house. Some working mothers aren’t so lucky. They have to drop their kids at daycare early in the morning so they can commute to work. They have to come home tired and clean, cook and prepare for the next day at work all with a cranky toddler or young child. I’m saying it is not for me and if it is for you don’t complain about your choices to society, the government and the media. It is your choice just like being home is mine. Working mothers make sacrifices and so do SAHMs. They are just different sacrifices. Should I whinge to the world because the only coffee I have had at a coffee shop in months is one my mother bought me yesterday? Or the last time we had a holiday was well, over 5 years ago when we stayed with my aunt in Sydney for 3 days? Or that I make decisions about car trips so I still have enough money at the end of the fortnight to get Jessica to kindy? I don’t because who would care? I make sacrifices about where I go, what I eat, how long I’m out for because I believe I can provide for my children by staying home with them. They may not have iPods, the latest gadgets or a lot of extra curricular activities but they do have me and the fun we have together. I’m sure they’ll remember the times we had together more than they’ll remember the “things” they owned.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div style="text-align: justify;">Thirdly, I’ve made the choice not to work because I believe I can provide for my children during their foundation years. I am teacher. I know I am unable to cater for the individual needs of each of the 26 kids in my class no matter what the literature, departmental policy or ideals tell me I can and should be able to do. It just isn’t physically possible to provide 26 different activities worded in 26 different ways which all achieve the same outcome of moving young people towards their ultimate future, extending or modifying so all can participate. This is the same at a daycare centre. For as much as teachers can extend an individual I don’t believe they can provide the same kind of individual care as a parent can. I only have to provide for 4 individuals and that is challenging at times. I don’t have to provide for 12 or 15 like they do in a daycare centre. Longitudinal studies of the effects of child care on infants starting daycare at younger than 6 months indicate delayed development while the same studies find those attending child care pre schooling years, as in the year before a child starts school, assist children in making the transition to school. The studies have indicated that between 6 weeks and 3 and ½ years are the most critical for the development physically, socially and emotionally and they also indicate in all of these areas the children attending long daycare showed delayed development in comparison to those who aren’t in long daycare. These are pretty much the same findings across the world and regardless of the standard of care offered. Most of these studies though haven’t been long enough to provide for the effects on individuals in post schooling years. This does not of course mean that all SAHMs do a great job. I know there are many days the job I do at home is terrible. I’m tired. I get cranky. I feel overwhelmed by the mess but I am able to cook with my kids, paint, draw, make playdough, do puzzles and make obstacle courses. We cuddle and laugh. We go to playgroup to be with other children. I’m there for them when they’re upset. I’m there when they’re having a tantrum and sometimes wish I could have one too. Some days it is horrible being home and some days when my husband walks through the door I just want to take his keys and walk straight out and have a coffee or talk to an adult. It is very interesting reading the threads on parenting forums. The SAHM threads talk about saving money and budgeting and stretching money further and the working mother thread talk about trying to balance work and family life. You’ll see there are different stresses. Different focuses. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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My issue with working mothers is that most claim they return to work because they are financially unable to stay at home. With the cost of day care, and I don't have an issue with the cost because it is extremely cheap for what you get, I don't understand how the majority of working mothers are better off. My issue with working mothers is what they won't give up in order to stay at home with their child/ren. Why can't they give up the expensive clothes and shop at an op shop? Or stop going out for coffee with friends or dinner with their husband? Why won't they downsize and live in a smaller house or in a less desirable area or buy a cheaper house to start with? Why do they need a new car instead of a second hand one? Why can't they give up the holiday for another few years so they can stay at home with the kids?<br />
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People of my generation see this kind of sacrifice as a very negative thing. For me it is just a short term sacrifice. I have no issue with working mothers who choose not to make these sacrifices but don't complain about your decision to me or to society because of the choices you and your family have made.<br />
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I don't see these sacrifices as a negative thing. We chose to buy the house we did knowing we could pay it off on one income. We could have bought a more expensive house which suited our needs more adequately but we chose this house because it means I can stay home. Yes, we sacrifice. We live on a busy road. We have 4 children in one room. We have renovations to do and improvements to make but we love it because it is ours. Our little piece of the world and we don't have to stress about paying the bills. We know we won't be going on a holiday for a few years unless it is a camping holiday or to visit friends somewhere. That is a sacrifice but I don't think it is a negative thing. Am I the only one who feels like this?<br />
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I know working mothers sacrifice too. They sacrifice time with their babies and their young children. I know that. I would not give it up because I know that I alone can provide emotionally, academically, socially and spiritually for my children. I am giving them the best start to life by being here for them. I know that what I am doing is right. It is hard work. It is draining and boring and horrible some days but it's only for a short time. Hollie's at school and those years at home with her went too quickly. I am sacrificing a lifestyle to have another kind of lifestyle. My kind of lifestyle. A lifestyle I love and sometimes hate but a lifestyle I happy to have.Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-85207316823629312932011-12-28T22:42:00.001+10:002011-12-28T23:28:38.324+10:00Christmas is Done and Dusted<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">On Christmas Eve we went to Mass, put the presents under the tree, left treats out for Santa and his reindeer and put the girls to bed. We were well prepared but relieved to go to sleep that night.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
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Our wonderful Christmas celebrations started early with stockings being looked through and then the mountains of presents being opened. This year we gave the kids two presents each and a share trampoline. The got a mountain of presents because there are 4 of them and they each gave the others a present.<br />
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</div><div>Lunch as a simple BBQ, with the guests bringing something to share. I was reflecting on the day last night and thought the table was rather crowded, everyone had to squeeze past each other and I thought we may need a different set up next time we host Christmas but then I realised that it is actually part of Christmas. Lots of people crowded in one place, lots of noise, lots of food. A little bit of discomfort is not too hard to deal with. Apart from the wonderful company, the best part of the day would have been the desserts. I'm a sucker for good food. Mrs Granny Weymouth always brings the trifle which it is delicious. Everyone brings something to share; salad, dessert or nibbles. It's great. Little stress and so much fun.<br />
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The removalists arrived on Monday with a container bursting at the seams with our belongings. We unpacked the beds and enough kitchen things to make a meal.<br />
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Almost all of the boxes have been unpacked. We still have some boxes stored at Kevin and Pauline's house which we are yet to pick up or if we have picked them up we have not yet unpacked and sorted through. There are years of school resources which will most likely get chucked. Don't suppose I'll be needing those any time soon. There is still the scrapbooking room to unpack. Gosh so much to do. At least our room, the kids room and the kitchen is unpacked except those boxes from the in-laws. <br />
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We had a lot of rain for the first week we were here so it made unpacking the perfect job to be doing. It also made us have to mow quite a few times in the first 2 weeks.<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;">The kids seem to have settled in really well. Hollie has her school uniform, a class number, a teacher and books ordered for next year. Jessica has checked out the kindy we'll be sending her to and seems to like it. All is left to do is contact mainly music and find a playgroup to attend. Maybe I should just start my own with the people I know around here?</div><br class="Apple-interchange-newline" /><br />
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Kevin has been allocated a school where one of his mates teaches, has all of his trains in the one spot, has his shed back and is planning his first train club meeting.<br />
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Me? I'm just hoping everything is clean and tidy enough for our guests in 4 sleeps time. I can do it. I really can. I can make this home presentable in 3 days. NOT. Family and friends are just going to have to put up with it aren't they. Well the least they could do would be to keep quiet about how messy, disorganised and unclean it is but I'm sure everyone will be so glad we're back they won't notice the mess. I won't be able to fix it up by Sunday that's for sure. My scrapbooking room won't be finished but that is ok. Kevin has erected the shelving system for it so I have started unpacking. I'm so excited to have my own space. Close the door on the projects and the kids can't destroy them. I'm so lucky and so excited.<br />
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We have already spent a lot of time in the garden pulling out unwanted plants and pruning, even breaking a pair of secateurs in the process. This morning I spent 1 and 1/2 hrs in the garden pruning and pulling before heading to the shops. Upon my return I returned to the garden to prune, pull and dig the horrible weed out of the gardens. We had hired a trailer to collect the last of our large items from the in-laws yesterday and were still in possession of it today so it was loaded up with garden waste. It was a 5x7 cage trailer and it was full. It was 10:30 before I finally stopped. What a morning and there is still so much to do. The next thing to bring back from the in-laws is the mattock to dig out all of the plants we have cut back. It is looking a little bare but we think it is best to start with a fresh look.<br />
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</div>Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-60116297894167419842011-10-12T12:32:00.000+10:002011-10-12T12:32:10.011+10:00PregnancyOne of my friends today told me she was pregnant. I was so excited for her. Happy for her news, happy for the joy it would bring her family however it made the think of all the things I hate about pregnancy. I remember with my first pregnancy my Mum told me to enjoy every moment of it because it is over so quickly and it is a miracle. Well, every time I threw up during that first pregnancy, which was all day and night for 18 weeks, I said, "Yes, this is a miracle. Thoroughly enjoyable." Women are designed to forget what it is like. No sane women would let a man near her again if she truly remembered what it was like. <div>We are still deciding, no I think we have decided, to have another baby. Yes, that means throwing up again for 18 weeks, sleepless nights during the pregnancy, 2-3 hourly feeds for 4-6 weeks, complete and utter exhaustion, teething and everything else that comes with having a baby. If you're a mother you'll know what I'm talking about. If you aren't, you think you understand but really you have no idea. So with all of that, why would I think having another baby is worth it? </div><div>A life of joy with the new baby and watching them grow up. You can't actually put it into words. There aren't enough mushy words to describe how it feels to be a mother. I used to think I didn't have enough room in my heart to love more than one but the more I've had the more my heart has grown and the more love I have in it. My children are just amazing. Sure they drive me nuts and I feel like running away sometimes. Who doesn't? I am still learning how to be a mum. These kids challenge me every day. They test my patience. They make me wonder what I'm doing. They smile and look up for a cuddle and everything seems ok. I hear them tell their friends how wonderful their Daddy is and my heart melts. I just love being a mum. I don't think I'll ever do anything as important as be their mum. No. I know I won't. I know that it is what I'm meant to do. I know I am good at it. Usually I'm good at it. They have taught me so much about the world and about myself. I can't imagine what my life would be like without them. I am truly blessed. </div><div>So yes, I will go again. 9 months is exceptionally short in a lifetime of joy and happiness. And this time, my last time, I will savour every moment. </div>Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-377123797654315323.post-76085068019930023632011-10-06T19:46:00.000+10:002011-10-06T19:46:08.389+10:00Sad newsMy sister's sister-in-law died yesterday at the age of 21 from dengue fever. I am so sadden by this even though I have never met her. I feel for my sister and her family. I cannot imagine what it feels like. She was so young and had her whole life ahead of her.<br />
Junaid is returning home to be with his family where 2 other members are ill. He has missed the funeral as, according to Islamic tradition, the body is buried as soon as possible after death. She only survived for a few short hours upon admission to hospital. She was on a hand held ventilator during her final hours. We really don't appreciate how lucky we are living in a country which has such a great health system. Where anyone can get state of the art medical treatment when ever and where ever they need it. We are so fortunate. I have not had a negative experience with our health system so I can't understand why people complain about it and compared to what others go through, ours is perfect.Amityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099758541603952170noreply@blogger.com0